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Party Bag Ideas: 25 That Don't End Up in the Bin

By Chaz Bagri26 February 20269 min read

A row of grey and brown paper gift bags stuffed with white tissue paper on a patterned tile table outdoors

Party bag ideas for ages 3 to 8, sorted by what happens on the way home: 25 things to do, eat or keep, and what to give instead of a bag.

The best party bag ideas are things a child uses before bedtime or keeps for a month: a packet of seeds, a stick of chalk, a slice of cake, a book. Here are 25, sorted by what happens to them on the way home, plus an honest answer on skipping the bag altogether.

A party bag is the small bag of treats each guest takes home from a children's party, usually handed over at the door with their coat.

What changes between a party bag for a 4, 5 or 6 year old?

Less than you'd think: most of the ideas below work from 4 to 6. What changes is who else lives in the house the bag goes home to, and how much reading the child can do.

At four, safety comes first: plenty of four-year-olds have a baby brother or sister, so pack for the youngest person in the house. One thing to do and one to eat is plenty.

At five, the problem is numbers. A whole-class Reception party means a lot of bags, so a cheap filler that's actually good matters most here. A name on something goes a long way at five.

At six, a bag can include words: a riddle card or a folded booklet, with a grown-up reading along if needed. Six-year-olds also notice when a bag is full of things nobody wanted.

25 party bag ideas, sorted by what happens on the way home

Pick from two of the four groups rather than one of everything. Two things that get used beat six that get binned.

Something to do, that afternoon

1. A packet of seeds

Cress or sunflower seeds in a small paper envelope with the party date on the front. Cress grows on damp kitchen roll on a windowsill, so there's something to check every morning.

Good for: 3 and up, with a grown-up. Under £1 a bag. Indoors, then outdoors.

2. A stick of pavement chalk

One fat stick each, and the front path becomes a drawing by morning. It washes off in the rain.

Good for: 3 and up. Under £1 a bag. Outdoors.

3. A home-made pose card

A card with three animal shapes drawn on it, a cat, a tree and a frog, and "Try these before tea" underneath. Stick figures are fine; nobody needs to read to follow them.

Good for: 3 and up. Free. Indoors.

4. A colouring sheet and two crayons

A picture from the party's theme, rolled and tied with wool, with two crayons rather than a pack of twelve.

Good for: 3 to 6. Under £1 a bag. Indoors.

5. A riddle card

Five riddles on a card, with the answers upside down at the bottom. It keeps the car home quieter than sweets do.

Good for: 6 and up, or younger with a grown-up reading. Free. In the car.

6. A paper aeroplane sheet

A sheet with the folds drawn on in dotted lines, ready to fly down the hallway, and "Whose goes furthest?" across the top.

Good for: 5 and up, or 4 with help. Free. Indoors.

7. A folded booklet

One sheet of A4 folded into an eight-page book, with "My party" on the front. The first page is for drawing the cake.

Good for: 4 and up. Free. Indoors.

8. A small pot of bubble mixture

It'll be used up by the weekend, which is the point. Nothing to keep, nothing to tidy away.

Good for: 3 and up. Under £1 a bag. Outdoors.

Something to eat

9. A slice of the birthday cake

Wrapped in a napkin, the oldest party bag there is. Home-made cake has no label, so write what's in it on the napkin: egg, milk, wheat, nuts.

Good for: whoever the parents say. Free. At home.

10. A clementine with a face

A face drawn on the peel in felt pen. The one thing in the bag a parent is glad to see, and the peel goes in the compost.

Good for: 3 and up. Under £1 a bag. At home.

11. One wrapped chocolate

A single bar, left in its wrapper. If the wrapper has no ingredients list, write the product name on the bag so a parent can check. One is a treat; five is a bedtime argument.

Good for: 5 and up. Under £1 a bag. At home.

12. A biscuit with their initial

A plain home-baked biscuit with each guest's initial iced on top. Finding their own letter is half the fun.

Good for: 5 and up. Under £1 a bag. At home.

13. A mini box of raisins

Small, cheap and unexciting to adults, which is why it gets eaten. It also survives being sat on.

Good for: 3 and up. Under £1 a bag. At home.

Something to keep

14. A second-hand book

A picture book from a charity shop or school fair, with "From Ava's fifth birthday" and the date inside the cover. Still on the shelf in a year.

Good for: 3 and up. £1 to £3 a bag. Indoors.

15. A pencil with their name on

A proper pencil with the guest's name on a flag of masking tape. It goes into the school bag on Monday.

Good for: 4 and up. Under £1 a bag. At school.

16. A sheet of paper stickers

One sheet, not a pad. Paper stickers end up on a card for Grandma rather than the car window.

Good for: 3 and up. Under £1 a bag. Indoors.

17. A photo from the party

One picture of each guest with the birthday child, sent to their parent that evening. It's the thing in this list parents keep.

Good for: every age. Free. At home.

18. A home-made bookmark

A strip of card in the party theme, with a hole punched for a loop of wool. Pair it with idea 14 if the budget stretches.

Good for: 5 and up. Free. Indoors.

19. A postcard jigsaw

An old postcard cut into big pieces and slipped into an envelope. Six pieces for a three-year-old, twelve for a seven-year-old.

Good for: 3 and up. Free. Indoors.

20. A cotton bag they decorated

Plain cotton bags and fabric pens make a party activity, and the bag becomes the present.

Good for: 4 and up. £1 to £3 a bag. Indoors and out.

No bag at all

21. What they made at the party

A crown, a mask, a decorated biscuit or a pot with a seed in it. If the activity makes something, that's the party bag.

Good for: 3 and up. The cost of the activity. Together.

22. A book swap

Every guest brings a wrapped book from home, and each child takes a different one away. Nobody spends extra.

Good for: 4 and up. Free. Together.

23. One thing at the door

A single book, seed packet or slice of cake handed over as each child leaves. One thing feels deliberate; a thin bag feels like a cut-back.

Good for: every age. Whatever the one thing costs. At the door.

24. A donation the birthday child chose

A small gift to a cause, with a note in each guest's book bag explaining why. It works when the birthday child picked the cause.

Good for: 7 and up. Whatever you choose to give. At home.

25. A thank-you and nothing else

A proper thank-you at the door from the birthday child, by name, and "no party bags" on the invitation.

Good for: every age, and easiest from 7 or 8. Free. At the door.

How do you fill party bags without wasting money?

Decide the cost per bag before you shop, then multiply it by the guest list plus two spares for the sibling who comes along. That one sum stops most overspending.

Then run three tests on anything you pick up:

Would you want it in your own house? If you'd bin it from your child's bag, the other parents will too.
Will it be used, eaten or kept by Sunday? If none of the three, leave it.
Is it safe for a toddler? Bags go home to younger siblings, so this question comes before price.

A paper bag or an envelope with the guest's name on it costs less than a branded plastic one and is easier to recycle. Nearly everything in the list above is plastic-free; the bubble pot is the obvious exception.

What's safe to put in a party bag for under-5s?

Pack for the youngest child in any house the bag might go home to. Mouthing things is a normal way for children aged 1 to 5 to explore, the NHS explains, and it names marbles, beads and button batteries as small enough to block a child's airway.

RoSPA's choking hazards advice lists deflated balloons and pieces of burst balloon, and balls smaller than 4.45 cm, as things to keep out of reach. For children under 4, it also lists peanuts, whole grapes, boiled sweets and chocolate eggs with small toys inside. The NHS says whole nuts should not be given to children under 5, as they can choke on them.

Anything that counts as a toy must be clearly marked with age restrictions based on risks such as choking, according to the government's product safety regulator (OPSS), so check the age mark before a toy goes in a bag. OPSS also warns that button batteries and powerful magnets can do severe harm if swallowed, and its advice for a suspected swallow is to go to A&E at once, with the packaging if you have it.

For allergies, ask on the invitation. Prepacked food must clearly label any of the 14 allergens within its ingredients list, for example in bold, italics or a different colour. Keep sweets in their wrappers, and label anything home-made yourself.

What can you give instead of a party bag?

Ideas 21 to 25 above are the alternatives: one thing at the door, what they made, a book swap, a donation or a proper thank-you. None of them looks mean if you say so on the invitation.

The book idea has backing: BookTrust suggests giving books as presents as one way to encourage children to read. If you're the guest rather than the host, our birthday present ideas for kids cover the present itself, and there are forty more in our presents for kids guide.

At what age do you stop doing party bags?

There's no set age and no rule, so decide by the party rather than the birthday. Bags tend to make the least sense when the guest list shrinks to a few close friends, when the party is a trip out that already feels like the present, or when your child would rather spend the money on the cake.

If you stop, say so on the invitation and keep the thank-you at the door. The goodbye is the part that matters.

Frequently asked questions

What are eco-friendly fillers for party bags?

Things that get used up or kept: a packet of seeds, a stick of chalk, a second-hand book, a paper sticker sheet, a slice of cake in a napkin. Pack them in a paper bag or an envelope rather than a plastic one. The greenest filler of all is one good thing instead of five small ones.

How much should a party bag cost?

There's no right amount, and nobody judges a party by its bags. Decide a figure per bag before you shop, then multiply it by the guest list plus two spares. Most of the ideas in this list come in under £1 a bag, and several are free if you have paper and a pen.

What are party favours that are not junk?

Anything a child does something with before bedtime, eats, or wants to keep. A seed packet, a riddle card, a photo from the party or a book all pass. A fistful of tiny plastic toys usually doesn't, and those are also the items most likely to be a choking risk for a younger sibling.

Are sweets in party bags a good idea?

One wrapped treat is fine for most families, but check first. The NHS advises avoiding food and drink with sugar or sweeteners for children aged 4 or younger, and RoSPA lists boiled sweets as a choking risk for under-4s. If a wrapper has no ingredients list, write the product name on the bag so a parent can check.

Spend it on the games instead

The bag is the last five minutes of the party; the two hours before it are what gets talked about on Monday. If you're hosting at home, put the effort into the games: our indoor party games for kids work in an ordinary front room with no kit.

And if the birthday child is the one who loved the pose card at number 3, a children's yoga mat with fifteen numbered poses is a present for them, not a party bag filler.

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